ouch... my head hurts.
Today taught me that I think too hard. Either I don't think about something enough (or at all), or I think about it so hard that I ruin all of the possible excitement and fun.
It's not a bad thing that I am planning/thinking ahead for the future. I am happy I have some kind of idea of what I want. But until my ultimate life dreams are achieved, I need to be grateful for the present opportunities and achievements. I need to realize that my perfect dream life will not happen in one moment, instead it is actually unfolding little by little...during these present moments.
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
13.6.11
8.6.11
Time
I haven't blogged in the last few days, but that does not mean I haven't learned.
In fact, in the past few days I've learned it takes some time before you learn why things are happening, why people are behaving certain ways, etc.
A lot has happened in the past few days and I am still learning my lessons from the situations.
Here are two facts that I do know:
1) People will surprise you. Do not underestimate the power of a friendship. Even though some mishaps happen in friendships over time-- good, caring people will have your back.
2) Lamar Odom is a wonderful human being. Watching Khloe and Lamar tonight actually helped me with something I struggle with in my life. Lamar struggles with his father Joe. Joe is not the stereotypical father but Lamar reflects saying something like, " It's just the way he is. Some people get stuck in their ways." He is right. If you love someone and want to take advantage of all the precious time you have with that person--you take them just the way they are...EVEN if they are stuck in their ways.
Click here to see more about two of my favorite stars :)
Khloe and Lamar
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
In fact, in the past few days I've learned it takes some time before you learn why things are happening, why people are behaving certain ways, etc.
A lot has happened in the past few days and I am still learning my lessons from the situations.
Here are two facts that I do know:
1) People will surprise you. Do not underestimate the power of a friendship. Even though some mishaps happen in friendships over time-- good, caring people will have your back.
2) Lamar Odom is a wonderful human being. Watching Khloe and Lamar tonight actually helped me with something I struggle with in my life. Lamar struggles with his father Joe. Joe is not the stereotypical father but Lamar reflects saying something like, " It's just the way he is. Some people get stuck in their ways." He is right. If you love someone and want to take advantage of all the precious time you have with that person--you take them just the way they are...EVEN if they are stuck in their ways.
Click here to see more about two of my favorite stars :)
Khloe and Lamar
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
5.6.11
Going Home
Jacksonville will ALWAYS be home. Even if my license plate says Georgia.
Celebrating special times with friends like Katherine (a middle school friend) gives me faith that true friendships really do persevere.
If anyone is interested in seeing photography talent take a look at Alex Michele Photography. She took Katherine and Derek's engagement photos and they look unbelievable. They even show up on the home page! Here is the link: Alex Michele Photography
Final thought: Arcade games never get old. Neither does fun dip or ring pops.
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
Celebrating special times with friends like Katherine (a middle school friend) gives me faith that true friendships really do persevere.
If anyone is interested in seeing photography talent take a look at Alex Michele Photography. She took Katherine and Derek's engagement photos and they look unbelievable. They even show up on the home page! Here is the link: Alex Michele Photography
Final thought: Arcade games never get old. Neither does fun dip or ring pops.
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
4.6.11
Weird.
Today taught me that some days are just weird.
They just are.
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
They just are.
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
3.6.11
2.6.11
I'm too pooped to pop
Today taught me:
1) Growing up is exhausting. It comes with many responsibilities and procrastinating is not an option. Or at least a good one.
2) Being a mom takes patience. My mom has a lot.
3) Never lose faith.
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
1) Growing up is exhausting. It comes with many responsibilities and procrastinating is not an option. Or at least a good one.
2) Being a mom takes patience. My mom has a lot.
3) Never lose faith.
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
1.6.11
Was grad school worth it?
Absolutely. Grad school was worth what I will owe in loans for however long. Unfortunately, it does not make paying loans back any more fun.
For those readers still in school-- PAY ON YOUR INTEREST NOW. It's chump change if you get started early. I "forgot" and "the website wouldn't let me log-in" so I just let it go. DUMB. Really dumb.
I just paid all of my interest today so now hopefully I can get on track to focus on the larger number.
Well federal government, it was nice to get that tax return in the mail, but the joke is on me. Bet you are laughing as you see that money come right back.
Oh, well. I am thankful today and thankful for the opportunities I had at the University of South Carolina.
Litsa Eileen
Song and Quote share
I heard a song and read a quote today. They both spoke to me. Hope you enjoy!
Song:
(click to listen)
I Know What I Want by Michael Warren
Quote:
Make YOUR best helping others reach THEIR best. #leadership
If you are not already, follow @leadershipfreak on twitter!
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
Song:
(click to listen)
I Know What I Want by Michael Warren
Quote:
Make YOUR best helping others reach THEIR best. #leadership
If you are not already, follow @leadershipfreak on twitter!
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
My MOM
It is 8:50am this morning and today already taught me that I have the best mom for me ever.
I say FOR ME because it is my hope that everyone would describe their mom, dad, or whoever they consider their support as THE BEST. The happiness and hope these people bring us is irreplaceable and empowering. I am so blessed to have my mom through the thick and the thin.
I hope you all have THE BEST in your life. It makes your heart full of hope and makes you smile.
Thankful for today and SO excited my mom is coming,
Litsa Eileen
31.5.11
Just.Do.Something.
Today taught me how much I've missed running.
I am happier when I run. I like to run. I feel good when I get out and exercise.
Research says exercise is powerful and I can feel it.
Just do it. Get up and do something!
Read this:
Exercise: 7 benefits of regular physical activity
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
I am happier when I run. I like to run. I feel good when I get out and exercise.
Research says exercise is powerful and I can feel it.
Just do it. Get up and do something!
Read this:
Exercise: 7 benefits of regular physical activity
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
30.5.11
Red, White, and Blue
Today taught me...
1) I still dislike goodbyes. And get extremely awkward.
2) Some friends would do just about ANYTHING for you. In their own unique way. Sometimes, there doesn't even need to be a conversation about what is going on...just a fun candy shopping spree :)
3) I'm glad I got Punky...however long ago that was. She's a cool cat.
4) I'm proud to be an American and I am grateful for the last minute celebration me and some others threw together tonight. America: Home of the free because of the BRAVE.
5) During this weird transition period...I'm still laughing. I love a good laugh.
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
1) I still dislike goodbyes. And get extremely awkward.
2) Some friends would do just about ANYTHING for you. In their own unique way. Sometimes, there doesn't even need to be a conversation about what is going on...just a fun candy shopping spree :)
3) I'm glad I got Punky...however long ago that was. She's a cool cat.
4) I'm proud to be an American and I am grateful for the last minute celebration me and some others threw together tonight. America: Home of the free because of the BRAVE.
5) During this weird transition period...I'm still laughing. I love a good laugh.
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
Lucky
Today taught me how lucky I am.
A friend gave me a Mad Libs book to keep me occupied when I feel alone. She knows me well.
I went floating down the river with Josh's friends. I am blessed to know him and all the wonderful people in his life. And I LOVE water. Oceans, rivers, lakes, creeks. I love water. It relaxes me.
I gave Pirates of the Caribbean a chance. Glad I did. I like that kind of humor. I laughed.
One of my very dearest friends is spending her last night in Cola with me. And she's sneezing because of Punky's fur. I must have done something right.
I read this today, and it fits:
"How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard." A.A. Milne
If you read yesterdays, I am still sad, scared, and anxious, but lucky. So damn lucky.
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
A friend gave me a Mad Libs book to keep me occupied when I feel alone. She knows me well.
I went floating down the river with Josh's friends. I am blessed to know him and all the wonderful people in his life. And I LOVE water. Oceans, rivers, lakes, creeks. I love water. It relaxes me.
I gave Pirates of the Caribbean a chance. Glad I did. I like that kind of humor. I laughed.
One of my very dearest friends is spending her last night in Cola with me. And she's sneezing because of Punky's fur. I must have done something right.
I read this today, and it fits:
"How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard." A.A. Milne
If you read yesterdays, I am still sad, scared, and anxious, but lucky. So damn lucky.
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
28.5.11
"Smile Always"
Today taught me that I don't need to be "the strong one". I am kidding myself.
In elementary school we were instructed to head our papers with our name, date, assignment number, etc. Above my name I always drew a smiley face with the words "Smile Always".
During this time of transition (grad school to ? ), I can't possibly "smile always". It's transition. And it's hard. I will miss people. I will miss places. I will miss situations. I will miss comfort.
So, today I decided I will embrace the fact that I am sad, scared, and anxious. I won't dwell (duh), but I will let myself be those things. Otherwise, I'd be kidding myself.
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
In elementary school we were instructed to head our papers with our name, date, assignment number, etc. Above my name I always drew a smiley face with the words "Smile Always".
During this time of transition (grad school to ? ), I can't possibly "smile always". It's transition. And it's hard. I will miss people. I will miss places. I will miss situations. I will miss comfort.
So, today I decided I will embrace the fact that I am sad, scared, and anxious. I won't dwell (duh), but I will let myself be those things. Otherwise, I'd be kidding myself.
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
27.5.11
The Beginning of My Future Goal
Today taught me that I may be onto something with my future goal of creating/being a part of a leadership consulting organization. Since I graduated, I was given a project by a mentor/friend to create and plan an orientation leader training curriculum. This week, I had more time on my hands than usual and I was able to give it my everything. Today I put together the end result. All of my hard work in a white binder, a pocket folder, and a ziplock bag. It looked good and I received great feedback. Honestly, this project is just what I needed. Especially this week.
I look forward to hearing how the training goes. I wish I could see it in action, but if I want to consult in the future I will have to get used to setting others up for success, walking away, and trusting the process...
Thankful for today and the consulting opportunity,
Litsa Eileen
I look forward to hearing how the training goes. I wish I could see it in action, but if I want to consult in the future I will have to get used to setting others up for success, walking away, and trusting the process...
Thankful for today and the consulting opportunity,
Litsa Eileen
26.5.11
oh, and today taught me...
Today taught me that the more things change, the more they stay the same...
Take a look at the first blog I wrote about a year from today:
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
Every Moment
My name is Litsa Eileen Orban and I just graduated with my masters degree in higher education and student affairs. However, just because I graduated does not mean I am done learning. I learn something everyday. And I will continue to learn something everyday. Every moment.
Some of my learnings are insightful. Some are thought-provoking. Some are shocking. Some disappointing. Some helpful. Some of my learnings are funny. Some are heartbreaking. Some are enraging. Some brilliant. Some of my learnings are joyful. Some are boring. Some are scary. Some hopeful. Some of my learnings I never cared to know. And some of my learnings keep me wanting to know more.
Despite everything I have learned in the past 24 years, I am not claiming to know a lot. Gosh, I don't know nearly as much as I'd like to know. But, as I learn each day, I can record the day's learnings right here with this blog. I can't promise that the learnings I share will be of any interest to you. They may be insightful, or thought-provoking. They may be shocking, disappointing, helpful, or funny. They may be heartbreaking, or enraging. They may be brilliant, joyful, boring, or scary. Some of my learnings may give you hope. Some you may never care to know. And some may keep you wanting to know more...
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
Some of my learnings are insightful. Some are thought-provoking. Some are shocking. Some disappointing. Some helpful. Some of my learnings are funny. Some are heartbreaking. Some are enraging. Some brilliant. Some of my learnings are joyful. Some are boring. Some are scary. Some hopeful. Some of my learnings I never cared to know. And some of my learnings keep me wanting to know more.
Despite everything I have learned in the past 24 years, I am not claiming to know a lot. Gosh, I don't know nearly as much as I'd like to know. But, as I learn each day, I can record the day's learnings right here with this blog. I can't promise that the learnings I share will be of any interest to you. They may be insightful, or thought-provoking. They may be shocking, disappointing, helpful, or funny. They may be heartbreaking, or enraging. They may be brilliant, joyful, boring, or scary. Some of my learnings may give you hope. Some you may never care to know. And some may keep you wanting to know more...
Thankful for today,
Litsa Eileen
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